Nobody is perfect but hey, there are some things some of us can’t deal with even when we’ve left a gap for your imperfection. This article highlights some of the unattractive traits so you can avoid them or fix them if you already have them.
You might not look as great as Salvador in the series “Second Chance” but smell good at least. If you have mouth odour, you can go around with a small mouth spray so you can spray it from time to time. Clean and fitted clothes, great smell and great scent from your mouth can get you to being our Salvador.
Drinking once in a while isn’t bad especially if you have to hang out with your friends every now and then but making it a habit is where the problem lies. We need you to think and talk straight not being under the influence of alcohol all the time. It’s not so sexy.
Bad table manners
We know you have to eat but can you at least take what your mouth can chew comfortably? You don’t have to let your chewing be loud enough for the neighbour’s to hear. Eat but then, moderately, we don’t want you starving, we don’t want to be irritated either.
Not paying attention
I cannot overemphasise the importance of giving us your attention. Some of us even prefer it to money (money is bae too though). Stop asking the same thing over and over, it means you were never listening, be there when we need you, just give us that and we are good.
Bad etiquette (vulgar/lousy)
So you saw your friend and you have to hail him in so much slangs and loud enough to alert the entire community, is it ever that serious? You’re having a discussion and you make it sound like it’s a rap battle, calm down bro, we like it strong but gentle still.
I remember my friend coming to my house with her so called boyfriend and the guy said I should come sit on his lap, telling me how beautiful I was, you know the drill. If you do this, just stop already, it’s so unattractive. Admire the girl and look away, that’s what real men do.
So what if you have 10 cars and 72 houses, do you have to remind us every time? ‘’I told my driver to go tell my steward to tell my gardener to tell my laundryman to….” Stop it. We know already and guess what? We don’t care.
Clingy and needy
Being clingy and needy has never been attractive to me regardless of the gender that has such trait. For men, it’s even worse because you’re supposed to be a MAN but then, you always want this or that, or you want to be everywhere we are, take a break or we will take it for you.
You just want everything to fall into place without having a plan on how to make that happen. You should be called the dreamer and now is the time to wake up. There’s nothing sexier than a man who works hard toward the actualisation of his dreams, even if you’re not there, we’d have hope that you’d be there someday. DO SOMETHING NOW!!!
Your having a bad day doesn’t mean everyone should have a bad day too. Stop that transfer of aggression. Even if someone pushes you to the wall, it’s better to walk away than break things or even beat the person up, no one can deal with that.
I need this and that, have you ever stopped to think about what we need too, it’s not necessary yeah? Why not shift your focus from you to us sometimes, care if we had a bad day or if we are happy instead of making it about you all the time.
We like Wiz Khalifa but is he our dream man? Maybe it inspires you and all but errrr, can you find another source of inspiration because we don’t see anything attractive about a chain smoker except if we’re there for the money.
Low self esteem
You want to boost your confidence? You need to get some confidence boosting pills because we’re tired of telling you how good you are/can be. Stop feeling inferior and be yourself, you’re awesome but if you don’t feel that way, it’ll be hard for us to make you feel that way too.